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We were on the road and mostly out of touch for fourteen days, my wife and I.  Being on the road on a long trip can be a confusing vortex of changing time zones and of landmarks visited and of people met.  Accents change, and scenery changes, and the bed you sleep in is a different one every night.  Your brain has to adjust when you get home to moving at a less frenzied pace.  But it’s not really about the destinations on these trips.  It’s about the spaces between the dots that we connect, and it’s about how we spend our time when we’re watching the miles roll.  We talk a lot, and laugh a lot, and dream together in ways that aren’t always possible when we’re at home underneath all our everyday responsibilities.

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When it comes to surprises, there are a lot of directions in which things can go. And the same surprise can depending on the surrounding circumstances turn out to be either a good surprise or an unhappy one.  Our job is to figure out which is which and to figure out how best to deal with them.

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The most interesting things about travel – the things that you notice – are the things that change.  The things that you see that are different from the things that you see at home.  When you travel, there are almost always differences enough to be somewhat overwhelming.  At the same time, it’s also those very differences that comprise the reasons that we travel.  When I travel, I’m looking for that change.  I’m looking for something different than what I would see when I am at home.

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On the road, your first home is always your car (or the vehicle with which you happen to be travelling).  Your second home is your hotel (or motel) room – it’s where you begin and end your travels every day.  It’s the place in which you have to feel comfortable for at least the length of your overnight stay.  There are so many little things that can go wrong on a road trip.  The last thing that that you want is to have issues in your home-for-a-night.  That kind of thing can ruin your entire day.  And no-one wants to sit in a tiny box with a crabby travelling partner for long.

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I think that you can almost always tell a good day from a bad day right from the beginning.  If something bad happens, or if you lose your temper early in the day, there’s very little that can happen that will brighten your day enough to turn it completely around.  On the other hand, if the early part of your day somehow manages to involve a tiny boy in dinosaur pyjamas … well, that’s almost guaranteed to keep a smile on your face for the rest of the day.

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